Below are resources I have picked from my files for you. I hope you find them useful.
Class outline and notes: Here.
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I write about active bystander intervention, ally tactics, or social and economic justice every Monday on my blog. https://ronafischman.com/blog/
The ones about bystander intervention and active ally tactics are found in this category, if you want to read the older posts. https://ronafischman.com/category/active-ally-tactics/
About the classes I can teach: https://ronafischman.com/why-bystander-intervention/
Verbal Self Defense
For very reserved people:
Social action for people with social anxiety
With friends/relatives/coworkers, facts won’t work
Bullying/microaggression and aggression:
Another version, what is microaggression?
Women’s guide to conflict resolution: The Professional Woman’s Guide to Conflict Management By Elinor Robin, PhD
Tongue Fu!: How to Deflect, Disarm, and Defuse Any Verbal Conflict by Sam Horn
Stepping in with strangers. Physical signs of aggression. Supplemental information:
What does dominant physical posturing look like?
Summary, one page handouts, short articles and blogs:
Bystander basic: Standing against Islamophobia
Bill Moyers on hate speech
Pacing. This from a TV show. It demonstrates how to get someone out of uncontrolled emotion. The technique is called pacing. You need to match their intensity to get their attention.
These are harder and should not be tried unless you are sure of safety for everyone in the area:
Public Demonstrations and Protest
Personal safety at protests (including phone safety)
Massachusetts law regarding video-making rights and phone security
How and why to video (from Teen Vogue)
Safely taking video, if you witness and ICE arrest