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The Non-Apology Apology

A true apology has most or all of the following characteristics: Is freely offered without requiring conditions or minimizing what was done Conveys that the person apologizing understands and cares about the hurt person’s experience and feelings Conveys remorse Offers a commitment to avoid repeating the hurtful behavior Offers to …

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Local Drivers Just Suck

On a night when I returned from a road trip to New York — specifically Brooklyn – I was more annoyed about …

When good allies don’t get it

Last weekend, an ally of mine posted something that I took exception to. It is a popular gaslighting meme about antisemitism. I …

Spring Yard Reveal In Progress

Regular readers know that I tore up my yard last summer. Everything had to go because black swallow wort was mixed into …

All That Movement

The eclipse moved me. Before the eclipse last Monday, I took myself to a manuscript showing at Harvard. It was a worthy …